
Let’s break down each of these factors and how they contribute to perceptions and behaviors:
1. Societal Expectations
Societal expectations refer to the roles and behaviors that a society deems appropriate for individuals based on their gender. These expectations can shape how individuals perceive themselves and others. For men, societal expectations often include:
- Being Providers: Men are often expected to be the primary breadwinners and protectors of their families.
- Emotional Stoicism: Men are typically encouraged to hide their emotions and avoid showing vulnerability.
- Physical Strength and Dominance: Men are often expected to be physically strong and assertive.
- Success and Achievement: Men are frequently pressured to succeed in their careers and achieve high social status.
2. Cultural Norms
Cultural norms are the shared beliefs and practices that define how individuals should behave within a particular culture. These norms can vary widely between different societies but often reinforce traditional gender roles. For men, cultural norms may include:
- Masculine Ideals: Cultural norms may emphasize traits like toughness, bravery, and competitiveness as markers of masculinity.
- Gender Roles: Men may be expected to take on specific roles within the household, workplace, and community.
- Patriarchal Structures: In many cultures, patriarchal systems place men in positions of power and authority over women.
- Women Make more $: In these cases the woman might put herself through college, got a career that makes her some of that ching ching, or she is a natural born hustla. Either way, she doesn’t need a man, but might attract those brookies! She must move diligent, and must be aware not to sell herself short. Cannot become a doormat, and get tossed for a another. Women like this must realize, a man wants be needed. You have to let that naturally happen mama!
3. The Impact of Social Media
Social media plays a significant role in shaping perceptions and behaviors by amplifying cultural norms and societal expectations. The impact of social media on perceptions of masculinity includes:
- Reinforcement of Stereotypes: Social media platforms can perpetuate stereotypes by showcasing idealized images of masculinity, often focusing on physical appearance, wealth, and success.
- Echo Chambers: Social media can create echo chambers where certain beliefs and behaviors are reinforced without challenge, leading to the normalization of toxic behaviors.
- Influence of Influencers: Social media influencers, who often portray idealized versions of themselves, can impact followers’ perceptions and behaviors. Influencers who promote aggressive, dominant, or unemotional behavior may contribute to toxic masculinity.
- Cyberbullying and Peer Pressure: Men may face cyberbullying or peer pressure on social media to conform to traditional masculine norms, leading to harmful behaviors.
4. Toxic Masculinity
Toxic masculinity refers to cultural norms and behaviors that perpetuate negative stereotypes about masculinity. It often includes:
- Suppression of Emotions: Men may feel pressure to hide their emotions, leading to emotional repression and mental health issues.
- Aggression and Dominance: Toxic masculinity often promotes aggressive and domineering behavior, which can result in violence and unhealthy relationships.
- Sexism and Homophobia: Toxic masculinity can perpetuate sexist and homophobic attitudes, contributing to discrimination and inequality.
- Risky Behaviors: Men may engage in risky behaviors to prove their masculinity, such as excessive drinking, reckless driving, and physical confrontations.
Misogyny
The term “misogyny” refers to the dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. It is a form of sexism that can keep women at a lower social status than men, thus maintaining the social roles of patriarchy3. Misogyny can manifest in various ways, including violence against women, sexual harassment, and legally or socially excluding women from full citizenship.
The Tate Bros Influence:
The Tate brothers, Andrew and Tristan Tate, are known for their controversial presence on social media and their involvement in various businesses, including a webcam model business and online courses promoting hyper-masculine views. Andrew Tate, in particular, has gained notoriety for his divisive commentary and promotion of misogynistic views, leading to his expulsion from several social media platforms1. Both brothers have faced multiple legal investigations, including charges of rape, human trafficking, and forming an organized crimes.
By understanding these factors, we can work towards creating a more inclusive and supportive environment that encourages healthy expressions of masculinity and challenges harmful stereotypes.
I hope this breakdown helps clarify these concepts! πβ¨ Please like, share and comment.