That is one of those million dollar questions, how long is long enough? There is certainly no one-size-fits-all answer to how much time has passed before you have that urge to feel good with another person. Some people get mad at their ex partner for moving on so fast from them, but what if they broke up before they actually made it official. Like, what if the relationship had been dead for a while now? Is it fair to say that person could move on so quickly? I think it depends on many factors, but for me, I like to heal before going into the next relationship. Have you ever was on a date and they talk about their ex person? (cringe!) Yeah, don’t be that person! That’s why healing is super important. You just have to give yourself that time to find yourself. It sounds cliche but it’s the truth. Then there are some people that were not ready to break up, they were just forced out. Well, that person is definitely resentful, and just simply mad! They really have to stay calm, know that time heals almost everything. Must have time for themselves, and do things that make them happy WITHOUT another person.
Take your Time to Heal:
It’s so important to process what happened in the last relationship and allow yourself to heal from those emotional wounds. If you do not address your self reflection, you will get lost, get erratic, and do things that are out of character. This could lead to trouble.
Be Stable:
Find a stable way of life without anyone, and when you could make yourself happy, you can make others happy. Are you excited about dating in the future? Do you want to learn from your old mistakes? Find someone that you usually do not go for but is an amazing person. We all have beauty inside of us.
Circumstantial Issues:
You have to consider how long was the relationship, the intensity. If you were a fiancé and the wedding did not go through. You might need more time than someone that dated for a year. Also, there can be an impact of why you can or cannot more forward fast or slow enough.
My Opinion:
I think that a person should at least give themselves a month to just reflect then maybe think about a rebound. Maybe moving on to the next, the very next week is almost or maybe narcissistic, and it’s like “Wow thought you loved me” type of vibe. It’s callus, and pretty shallow. You are not wrong for being upset!
I hope this article helped you. 🌟✨
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